『双语博客』洋拉拉告诉你：与女同交谈的十大禁句

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在Asylum看到一篇挺好玩的老外博客《10 Things You Should Never Say to a Lesbian（十大绝对不要跟拉拉说的话）》，一个女同志(Nikki Dowling，下图里的红衣女就是她)给所有男性同胞列出来的绝对不要跟拉拉说的十大“禁句”。听说现在大学里男同女同都越来越多了，大家也应该学习学习如何不要冒犯人家哦。女同虽然是女的，可也有不少甚为彪悍的mm哦，小心被扁。。。下面是JuliaD为大家翻译的全文：
; G/ c" F0 d5 U/ w0 n2 y) SLesbians are great for hanging out with, talking to about sports and beating you in arm wresting. Unfortunately, the porn industry has also done a pretty good job of convincing you lesbians also want to have sex with you.
广大男同胞们，其实跟拉拉做“兄弟”是很好的，一起玩啦，聊聊体育啦，还能跟你掰腕子把你给赢了。可惜的是，A片业的工作做得实在是太好了，搞得你们男的都觉得拉拉也有可能跟你OOXX。
Luckily, this real, flesh-and-blood lesbian to set you straight (heh). Without further ado, here are a few lines that are almost certain to get you ousted from lesbian ladies night at your local pool hall.
9 o: h* `0 M2 h5 A8 V: ]* V现在好了，让我这个活生生的拉拉来给你上一课吧。开门见山吧，下面就是十个绝对会让你被拉拉们胖揍一顿的“禁句”。
10. “You just haven’t met the right guy yet.” No, but I certainly seem to be talking to the wrong one right now. Maybe you haven’t met the right guy.
10、“你只是没遇到对的男人啦。” 去你的吧。不过按照现在的情况，我今天确实没遇到对的男人，你就很错。话说回来，你是不是也没遇到对的“男人”啊？遇到了你就同了？
5 H. j' x$ u1 |, ^; \: s1 F9. “Wanna have a threesome?” No, but I’ll take your girl home and teach her a thing or two about what she’s been missing.
( ~, O/ v$ U, E& M! ^. N5 @ 9、“想玩3P不？”去你的吧。我倒是可以把你女朋友带回家教她些你不能满足她的招数。
8. “Lesbians can’t have sex.” Oh yeah? You just keep telling yourself that, if it makes you feel better
8、“拉拉的ooxx都不是真的ooxx。”哈，你就这么自欺欺人下去吧，只要能让你心里舒服点就行了。
; M1 w) V  L( B( P7 {/ g! |7. “So who’s the man in your relationship?” Maybe you didn’t notice but there is no man in this relationship because we’re both girls. That’s sorta the point of being gay.
" r. G4 {, _$ F+ \% w1 ]) e 7、“那你们俩谁演男的啊？” 我俩都是女的，所以没有男的。我们要是想要男的，就不拉拉了。
* m& D: p9 T+ j2 O4 Q( d6. “You don’t look gay.” What is that supposed to mean? Just because I’m not wearing a bandanna and baggy jeans and riding in a pickup truck doesn’t mean I’m going to sleep with you. Go away.
6、“真看不出来你是拉拉啊。”您到底啥意思啊？老娘确实没戴头巾，没穿拖拖拉拉的牛仔裤，没开小卡车，可这不代表我就想跟你滚床单。哪儿凉快哪儿呆着去。
6 R8 _0 f" O+ y: D* b3 n5. “How do you know you’re gay? Are you sure?” If you want me to answer this honestly, you’d better sit down because it’s going to take a while. See, I have to tell you about the painful realization that started when I was 14, and the agonizing coming-out process. But I probably don’t want to share this with a complete stranger, so it’s likely I’ll just tell you that, if I had any doubts before I met you, they’re gone now.
* [; u' I) T; T, I  c. g 5、“你怎么知道自己是同性爱啊？你确定不？” 想听真话的话，您最好坐下来听我细说。要说就要从我十四岁就走上的这条痛苦的自我认识之路开始了，还要加上荆棘满途的出柜经历。可惜的是，我可不想跟个陌生人掏心掏肺的。就这么跟你说吧：要是说遇到你之前我还对自己的性向存疑的话，现在我就完全可以肯定了。
/ a) t! x* \8 Y" ~) Z1 O) v4. “I think they should just give gay people civil unions.” Gee, thanks so much for your support! Separate But Equal is always the way to go, right?
. h2 t% p) Q  F. y- p4 q8 O2 ~ 4、“我觉得同志可以民事结合[1]啦。”噢，多谢您支持啊。种族隔离一样就最好了是吧，正常婚姻是你们异性恋的，我们就只有“民事结合”了。
- r! s5 f* T4 D: _) f! P3. “But you’ve been with a man, right?” Yes, take a deep breath. I know what I’m “missing,” and I gotta tell you, fellas, it’s not much. Also, don’t take the fact that I’ve been with a dude as an invitation to question my sexuality.
2 T2 J0 p$ A. A; f% y& A 3、“不过你之前交过男朋友吧？” 是的，我交过，深呼吸一下。我知道我“错过”的是什么。跟你直说了吧，我一点都不觉得可惜。还有，不要因为我交过男朋友就开始怀疑我的性向。
- H1 D: G! }. }1 J6 N4 J' R3 ` 2. “Dyke.” Don’t use this word. Somehow it has snuck into everyday vernacular, but it’s derogatory and offensive. File it under “homophobic” and shut up.
/ e4 h5 g4 ^% b6 b- t4 \0 G 2、“Dyke。”别用这个词了。虽然这个被用来指代女同志的词已经家喻户晓了，但其实这词是贬义的，而且很让人不爽。从今以后就把这词归到“同志恐惧症”一栏吧，闭上你的鸟嘴。
6 j0 T! }( D1 v! i( R3 r8 H# u1. “Can I watch?” No.
8 v% P! V/ D) [1 k% a 1、“你俩OOXX的时候我能看不？” 去你的吧。
注[1]：civil unions 民事结合，只经过政府公证的婚姻，区别于传统的附有宗教意义的婚姻。不少国家同性可以公证结婚，但不能进入教堂。相当于中国的领证不办酒吧。
# J3 w/ h& M* _PS：感觉这个跟【老外说性】里的Dan很是异曲同工啊，这个同志女同学很是火爆啊，看来实在是被这些“禁句”折腾得够呛吧。